Sunflower Diaries

My health journey – wellness, fashion, health and more.

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Those who know me best, know how difficult it can be for me to speak up! So here goes: Hi, I am Joy. I decided to write this blog to raise awareness of living with chronic pain and how to keep upbeat in even the darkest/ loneliest days. I am a mother to one wonderful daughter and a wife to my very supportive husband. I met my husband during our PhD journey (story for another blog/ reflections I am sure). I knew from the moment I met him that it was true love. Our research and personal interests aligned well which made it easier to communicate and grow together. My love for him has grown stronger every day and more so since our daughter was born. He is an inspiration to fathers. We knew we wanted a small family one day but did not realise the issues I had as a young woman/ teenager would impact our fertility journey and lives to the extent it now has. So, I am 1 in 10%. I have endometriosis. There is no cure. But to add complications I also had adenomyosis (more about this below as I document my health journey). I have chosen the name sunflower diaries for my blog to symbolise #endometriosis. The sunflower is synonymous with growth, vitality and positive energy. I also love #sunflowers. I am an #endometriosiswarrior and an #adenomyosiswarrior💜. Let’s raise awareness and compassion for all women afflicted by these diseases. The struggles are real but I hope to bring you some #NewJoy by sharing my story. I challenge you to think of what makes you happy in life and keep being #strongwomen especially if you have entered a transition phase of your life. This is even more important as I watch my own daughter grow up and hope she does not suffer the same issues I faced. In summary, #believeinyourself❤️ #loveyourbody and #bekind 🤗😊❤️‍🩹 If you like this blog, please read and share. http://sunflowerdiaries.blog

Category: Poem

  • In bloom

  • Raindrops

  • The break up with endometriosis.

    Finally… This poetry was inspired by my struggles and recovery from endometriosis. I hope other women can find their voice and get the support they need. It’s an uphill struggle (but like a view at the top of a mountain), the effort is worth it for health and happiness. Keep fighting. #endometriosiswarriors #adenomyosiswarriors.

  • Ode to a Rain garden 🪴 ☔️

    Just for fun. Nod to my day job. I miss talking about SuDS and work. Recovery is necessary but my career is very important to me. I thought I would write this poem inspired by nature and sustainability.

  • Footprints in the sand

    Footprints footprints, thank you mum for holding my hand, as we journeyed across the sand. Often armed with a bucket and spade, and now I cherish all of the memories we made, as you helped me paddle and wade. Collecting shells, remembering their salty smell, and listening to the sound of the waves as they…

  • Little Sunflower:

    Dedicated to my daughter. Usually the sunshine in the house (always full of positive energy and a kind soul). This poem is written to express my love for her and thank her for her patience. Little Sunflower:  Sunflower. Oh little sunflower how I have watched you grow; We have more love for you than you…